Marriage and Chastity

Methodius of Olympus, Banquet of the Ten Virgins Discourse 11

Methodius of Olympus · d. c. 311 AD

I accept what Theopatra said, Virtue, and I commend it all. Even though you did not do so publicly, you engaged with the words eagerly and worked through them thoroughly. You offered not sweet talk crafted for the listeners' pleasure, but a reminder meant for correction and sobriety. The one who says chastity must be preferred and greeted first among the virtues is giving sound advice. Many think they honor and serve it, but few truly do. A person does not honor chastity when he merely keeps his own flesh untouched by sexual pleasure while failing to control his other desires; he actually dishonors it, trading pleasures for pleasures through vain cravings. Nor does someone honor it by enduring hardship against external desires yet growing puffed up with pride over his ability to master the flesh's passions, treating everyone else as nothing. He dishonors it through arrogant haughtiness, cleaning the outside of the cup and plate while filling his flesh, body, and heart with pride and greed. Nor does someone awash in wealth strive to honor chastity; he dishonors it by preferring its meager profit, which cannot compare to true riches. In its presence all wealth is just wealth, and gold counts as mere grains of sand. Nor does the person who loves himself excessively and pursues only his own advantage, indifferent to his neighbors, honor chastity. He dishonors it too, falling far short of those who commune with it worthily, because he has insulted its love, its sympathy, and its philanthropy. You cannot be chaste and virginal on one hand while acting wickedly, licentiously, and intemperately on the other. You cannot promise purity and self-control on one hand while defiling yourself and sinning on the other. You cannot claim indifference to worldly things on one hand while acquiring them and immersing yourself in them on the other. Instead, you must keep every member untouched by corruption and unmingled — not only the lustful and sexual organs, but also the ones more active than these. It is a mockery to keep the instruments of childbearing virgin while failing to guard the tongue, or to keep the tongue virgin while neglecting the eyes, ears, or hands, or to guard all these yet leave the heart unguarded, letting it consort with pride and anger. Anyone who intends not to sin in the practice of chastity must keep all his members and senses pure and tightly sealed, just as ships' helmsmen fasten the hatches so that sin, once poured in, finds no entrance from within.

Greek

Ἀλλὰ δέχομαι, τὴν Ἀρετὴν ἡ Θεοπάτρα ἔφη φάναι, καὶ πάσας ἐπαινῶ· κράτιστα γὰρ δή, κἂν οὕτω μὴ φανερῶς, ἀλλὰ μετὰ σπουδῆς τὰ λεχθέντα δεχομένη διεξελήλυθας, οὐ γλυκυμυθίαν πρὸς τέρψιν ·τῶν ἀκουόντων συσκευασαμένη , ἀλλὰ πρὸς ἐπανόρθωσιν ὑπόμνημα καὶ νῆψιν. προτάττειν γὰρ τῶν ἐμῶν ἐπιτηδευμάτων ἁγνείαν ὁ λέγων δεῖν καὶ ἀσπάζεσθαι πρώτην τῶν ἄλλων ὀρθῶς παρακελεύεται· ἥν τιμᾶν μὲν νομίζουσι καὶ θεραπεύειν πολλοί, τιμῶσι δ' αὐτὴν ὡς ἔπος εἰπεῖν ὀλίγοι. οὐ γὰρ ὁπόταν τὴν ἑαυτοῦ σάρκα τῆς κατὰ συνουσίαν ἄγευστον ἡδονῆς φιλοτιμῆται τηρεῖν ἄνθρωπος, τῶν ἄλλων μὴ κρατῶν, ἁγνείαν τιμᾷ· ἀτιμάζει μὲν οὖν αὐτὴν μᾶλλον οὐχ ἥκιστα βαναύσοις ἐπιθυμίαις, ἡδονὰς ἀντικαταλλασσόμενος ἡδοναῖς. οὐδέ γε ὁπόταν πρὸς τὰς ἔξω μὲν ἐπιθυμίας διαπονῇ καρτερῶν, ὑπεραίρηται δὲ φυσιούμενος, αὐτῷ δὴ τούτῳ τῷ δύνασθαι τῶν τῆς σαρκὸς ὑπεκκαυμάτων κρατεῖν, καὶ πάντας ὡς οὐδὲν ἐξουδενῶν ἡγῆται, ἁγνείαν τιμᾷ · ἀτιμάζει γὰρ αὐτὴν ὑβρίζων ὑψηλοφροσύνῃ, τῷ τὸ μὲν ἕξωθεν τοῦ πίνακος καθαίρειν καὶ τῆς παροψίδος, τὴν σάρκα, τὸ σῶμαι τὴν Τε καρδίαν τύφῳ σίνεσθαι καὶ φιλοδρατίᾳ. οὐδέ γε ὁπότε ἀναβρύνεταί τις χρήμασι, τιμᾶν αὐτὴν σπουδάζει· ἀτιμάζει μὲν οὑν παντὸς μᾶλλον δὲ καὶ οὑτος, προκρίνων αὐτῆς ὀλίγον κέρδος, ἡς οὐδὲν ἀντάξιον τῶν ἐν τῷ τιμίων· »πᾶς« γὰρ πλοῦτος πλοῦτος ἐνώπιον αὐτῆς καὶ »χρυσὸς« ὡς »ψάμος ἀλίγη«. οὐδέ γε ὁ ἑαυτὸν ὑπερφυῶς ὑγούμενος φιλεῖν καὶ τὸ ἑαυτῷ μόνῳ συμφέρον σπουδάζων σκοπεῖν, ἄφροντις δὲ τῶν πλησίων, ἁγνείαν τιμᾷ· ἀτιμάζει μὲν οὖν αὐτὴν καὶ οὗτος· πολὺ γὰρ λείπεται τῶν κατ' ἀξίαν ὁμιλούντων αὐτῇ. τῷ τὴν ἀγάπην αὐτῆς καὶ τὸ συμπαθητικὸν καὶ τὸ φιλάνθρωπον λωβήσασθαι. οὐ γὰρ τῇδε μὲν ἁγνεύοντας παρθενεύειν δεῖ, τῇδε δὲ κακοπραγοῦντας χραίνεσθαι καὶ ἀκολασταίνειν , οὐδὲ τῇδε μὲν ἐπαγγέλλεσθαι καθαρεύειν καὶ σωφρονῖν, τῇδε δὲ μολύνεσθαι καὶ ἁμαρτάνειν, οὐδ' αὖ τῇ μὲν ὁμολογεῖν μὴ πεφροντικέναι τῶν κοσμικῶν , τῇ δὲ κτᾶσθαι καὶ ἐν αὐτοῖς ἐξετέζεσθαι., ἀλλὰ πάντα τὰ μέλη φθορᾶς ἀκοινώνητα καὶ ἀμιγῆ τηρεῖν, οὐ μόνον τὰ κνησμώδη καὶ συνουσιαστικά, ἀλλ’ ἤδη καὶ τὰ τούτων ἐνεργέστερα. χλεύη γὰρ τὰ μὲν τῆς παιδοποιήσεως ὄργανα τηρεῖν παρθένα, τὴν δὲ γλῶτταν μὴ τηρεῖν, ἢ τὴν γλῶσσαν μὲν τηρεῖν παρθένον, τὴν δὲ ὅρασιν ἢ τὴν ἀκοὴν ἢ τὰς χεῖρας μὴ τηρεῖν, ἢ ταῦτα μὲν ἔχειν κοὶ τηρεῖν παρθένα, τὴν καρδίαν δὲ μὴ τηρεῖν , ἀλλ’ ἑταιρίζεσθαι τύφῳ καὶ θυμῷ. δεῖ γὰρ πάντως τὸν μέλλοντα μὴ ἁμαρτήσεσθαι περὶ τὴν ἄσκησιν τῆς ἁγνείας τὰ μέλη πάντα καὶ τὰ αἰσθητήρια τηρεῖν ἑαυτοῦ καθαρὰ καὶ συνεσφιγμένα καθάπερ δὴ καὶ πλοίων ὧν] οἱ κυβερνῆται τὰς ἁρμογὰς σφίγγουσι, πρὸς τὸ μὴ σχεῖν ἔσω δίοδον τὴν ἁμαρτίαν ἐπεισχεομένην.

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